As comparing the kids with other children is so bad, knowing how other kids are doing is much better. There is a little difference between comparing and having knowledge about other children. When we compare our children with others, either we underestimate our kid or will develop some pride. Both the attitudes are bad. It is always advisable to be objective about the children while assessing them.
When we compare our children we take in to consideration our kid's behaviour and others'. If our kid's behaviour is bad and others' is good, then we look down them. This will cause pain in the child. If our kid's qualities are better and others' are bad, we take pride and this will make our children feel great.
So, for an objective analysis of our children, it is advisable to gather the qualities of other children and then weigh whether they are good or bad. Then choose the good habits and qualities and shall try to inculcate in our children. However this activity shall be done without the knowledge of the kid.
If the children come to know that they are under scrutiny, they will pretend abnormally and try to hide their real qualities. This will not give us an opportunity to have an objective analysis.
When children or compared with other children and looked down, they feel offended. This will cause noconfidence among the children. So either looking down or praising unnecessarily pose danger to the children.
For knowing other children's qualities parents shall have to be socialised and share their experiences. At this time also parents have to cautious. They shall not boast about their children are talk meanly about them. Here another thing has to be kept in mind. If parents of other children boasting their kid's qualities, it shall be checked.
Even a discussion with our own kids will also gives some information about other kids. Interacting with the teachers will tell much about the other kids. Since teachers deal with lot of children, they will have a good knowledge about the kids. Taking the teachers' advice is very much desirable.
Tell About Your Kids
Through this blog you can share your experiences with your kids with others. Feel free to write about your kid's qualities and how she or he is doing at school and in the society.
If you have knowledge about incredible children, do share them also. This will create some enthusiasm among the children and parents and will make parenting a joyous thing. However, please be objective when you are saying something about the kids.
When you are writing about incredible kids, make it sure that it is correct, real and accurate. Any exaggeration would cause much damage.
When we compare our children we take in to consideration our kid's behaviour and others'. If our kid's behaviour is bad and others' is good, then we look down them. This will cause pain in the child. If our kid's qualities are better and others' are bad, we take pride and this will make our children feel great.
So, for an objective analysis of our children, it is advisable to gather the qualities of other children and then weigh whether they are good or bad. Then choose the good habits and qualities and shall try to inculcate in our children. However this activity shall be done without the knowledge of the kid.
If the children come to know that they are under scrutiny, they will pretend abnormally and try to hide their real qualities. This will not give us an opportunity to have an objective analysis.
When children or compared with other children and looked down, they feel offended. This will cause noconfidence among the children. So either looking down or praising unnecessarily pose danger to the children.
For knowing other children's qualities parents shall have to be socialised and share their experiences. At this time also parents have to cautious. They shall not boast about their children are talk meanly about them. Here another thing has to be kept in mind. If parents of other children boasting their kid's qualities, it shall be checked.
Even a discussion with our own kids will also gives some information about other kids. Interacting with the teachers will tell much about the other kids. Since teachers deal with lot of children, they will have a good knowledge about the kids. Taking the teachers' advice is very much desirable.
Tell About Your Kids
Through this blog you can share your experiences with your kids with others. Feel free to write about your kid's qualities and how she or he is doing at school and in the society.
If you have knowledge about incredible children, do share them also. This will create some enthusiasm among the children and parents and will make parenting a joyous thing. However, please be objective when you are saying something about the kids.
When you are writing about incredible kids, make it sure that it is correct, real and accurate. Any exaggeration would cause much damage.
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